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Showing posts with label modernism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label modernism. Show all posts

Thursday, 20 September 2012

Fake Modernists (Part 2)

These days, going to the pub, drinking and smoking has become quite common. Almost everyone does it.

But the problem arises when someone heavily indulges in them.

My best friend, S, told me that two of her friends, P and N, are alcoholics. They often finish two three bottles of beer in empty stomach; as a result, on their way home, they become unconscious. The responsibility, to take them home, falls on the person who is accompanying them.

Sohu has a big heart; therefore when she got to know about this, she was horrified. She was scared that somebody will take advantage of them, in their delicately unconscious situation. Out of goodwill, she decided to voice her opinions. She warned her friends to reduce their alcohol intake and told them about the dangers attached to heavy drinking.

Sadly, her good suggestions were ignored. Few days later, she got to know that her friends have tagged her “Miss Old fashioned”. Moreover, she got to know from a common friend that P and N don’t consider her to be a good influence to their group. She was too prude to be considered a “Sophisticated Modernist”.

That night, when I called S, she informed me about this incident; she was morose and heartbroken. She had already started to doubt her morals.
I loved her too much to leave her in that condition. I knew that she was not wrong. After talking for hours, I finally succeeded in cheering her up. I told her to ignore P and Nat’s scathing opinions about her. When I saw that she has finally come back to normality, I relaxed and kept the phone.

I was so angry at those two girls that I could have killed them for making fun of my best friend and her great worldly morals. But as I started to calm down, I only felt regret, not for thinking of killing them but for their childish immature behaviours.   

A “Modernist” is not the one who indulges in smoking or drinking; it’s the one who takes the best of the east and the west. The mixing of the goods of the two different cultures makes a person “Modern”.

Tuesday, 11 September 2012

Fake Modernists (Part 1)

Few Sundays back, I had an interview with a NGO, Make a Difference. Having reached early, my interview got over soon. I saw no point in waiting there. As I was about to leave, it started raining. Reluctantly, I stayed back.
I saw that few girls were sitting and chatting on the floor. To kill time, I introduced myself and joined in their conversation. Initially, the topics vacillated from colleges to college campuses.
But after sometime, two of the girls in the group, Mandy and Shinjini, started talking about smoking.

Mandy asked Shinjini “Hey! You smoke right?”

Shinjini replied “Obviously! Duh!”

I was irritated by their tone. In order to draw their attention, I said “Smoking is injurious to health!”

They gave me a perplexed look and mockingly told “There is a thrill in doing things that sound bad.”

I subconsciously knew that they will answer me in their typical disinterested tone.
(Frankly, I don’t have anything against smoking. It’s just that I don’t find any pleasure in it. There was a time when I really wanted to smoke; not because I liked it but because I found the idea of me holding a cigarette and puffing out smoke quite inviting. I could not last a day. I had my first puff and found out that it was not my cup of tea. My throat was burning and I was having a weird irritation in my nasal cavity.)

I was irritated not because they smoke but because they were trying to flaunt their dirty habits. They had this weird thinking that by smoking profusely; they will be given the badge for being the most sophisticated. Not once, I heard them talk about something good. All they had to say was how the Indians are bad; how smoking is good; how the western world is the best. Lastly, they added that they will happily leave India at the first opportunity.

I was astounded to see that they considered their dirty habits as being “Modern”.


There was a time when I fell into this trap. When I thought that I can make myself ultra modern by hitting the disc, smoking or drinking. But I was wrong.
Now, if somebody asks me “What is Modernism?”

I will answer that it is the freedom of thought; it is the equality between the sexes; it is the equal share of rights. I don’t think that there is any “Modernism in conforming to the dirty habits of the Western World. I don't consider their fake behaviours as being Modern!